They have money for nannies, trips, vacation homes, their children go to the finest colleges, etc. Though they make time for ppl who matter in their life e. Communicate and get those answers, OP. I even had someone tell me I should know better than to marry a nomo. I often contemplate divorcing my husband so that I could seek happiness elsewhere, or at least companionship.
Needless to say, my life is a little bit crazy. Patience my dear, that's what you're going to have to keep telling yourself. We moved city over 6 months ago which was in the best interests of her career as well as mine.
Too often, I think, priesthood holders think that being overly controlling, they are simply wielding their authority in the home. You're walking into a den of crazy, tbm bishop's daughter, I hate to say it but you should really be contemplative about what you're stepping into. What do you think is a reasonable expectation for how much time you will spend together, how often you will talk, etc.
Go for the joy, the experiences, the children to come. This woman has already given two full years fully devoted to the institution without question. One small thing to add here. Not his wife and kids. She encourages me to develop my skills and talents, and provides an example in several of those areas. Facebook Email Twitter Print. I can handle a lot of daily mindless, nonverbal things, like cuddling for a bit before bed, but phone calls and even texting can be exhausting in a way that is very difficult to explain. Yes, talk talk talk about everything yoiu can think of, but beyond that I would suggest pre-marital counseling from people knowledgeable in each tradition at play this will probably take two different counselors, who might be faith-based.