She is going to dump you. Now he is into his second year, the schedule has improved some and so has his libido: I am married to an intern this is his first year residency, unfortunatley he didn't match so this is only a pre-lim year and now I know in my thoughts we may have to move again, so I get upset when I think why even try and get attached to the community, neighbors, new friends As humans we really need people in our lives especially in a time like this, although we might have to move again and go through the whole match process again there is still hope and there is still a very much needed assist with friends, and family in our lives. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church: It's cruel to suggest it. The first time that happened could have been viewed as a warning sticker, and been your cue to exit stage right.
I'd just like to add that unless you're happy being with her as a full believing Mormon, don't stick around in the hopes that she'll de-convert. All these link from LDS. I give input into our activities for dates, and this works out well since we're very compatible and like spending leisure time the same way. I would leave him note reminding him how important his work was. Thanks for sharing your experiences.
But our marriage is strong, and our children are good people. I'm pointing this out because I don't know her and couldn't tell you what to expect. When my husband and I were sealed, I finally understood why my Dad had been stressing this to me my entire life. Good luck and best wishes as you head back out into the dating pool. What's not to like about being a doctor's wife. If someone isn't dying then it is unlikely to be important. Marry a person based on his character, not his religion.
I'm married an interventional cardiologist; and I wish I only knew 5 years ago before she started her fellowship what the heck I was signing up for. Why Mormons are not racist. Whereas I think of him all the time. As time has gone by I realized that the opinons of others is not important to me and oddly enough those who did not originally approve have had their hearts and minds changed by the love my husband shows me, our daughter, and the members of my family.